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Eternal hope

Life without hope would be a painful nightmare. We all live on hopes and dreams that the future would bring for us the things that we cherish most .Every child has bundle of hopes on parents, God and Santa Claus. They believe in what they are told and build hopes. Every young student in schools/colleges is an aspirant for big degrees and good positions. They work for these with lot of hopes. Married people hope for children, businessman for profits, the old and infirm for good health. Hope is eternal in the hearts of men.Without hope any life would be meaningless. Hope is the greatest motivator to endeavour towards success. Hope brings about a faith in the creator and God’s hand in all things. It gives a healing touch to the troubled minds and hearts. It therefore behoves on all of us not to crush the legitimate hopes of people around us by insensitive comments and instead  help them in whatever manner we can to realize their hopes. It is in the nature of things if one hope does not materialize another one takes over its place. Nothing in this world is hopeless.

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Posted by on January 1, 2009 in Uncategorized

 

Happy New Year-some trivia

Happy New Year everyone!!

 

A little New Year Trivia…..

 

Baby New Year Tradition

Tradition of using a baby to signify the New Year was started by ancient Greeks around 600 B.C. They would carry a baby around in a basket to honor Dionysus, the God of Fertility and symbolize his annual rebirth.


Burning "Mr. Old Year"

In Colombia, Cuba and Puerto Rico families stuff a life-size male doll with things that have bad memories or sadness associated with them, and then they dress it up in old clothes from each family member. At the stroke of midnight, this ‘Mr. Old Year’ is set on fire.


Eating 12 Grapes

In Spain people eat 12 grapes as the clock strikes midnight (one each time the clock chimes) on New Year’s Eve. This peculiar ritual originated in the twentieth century when freak weather conditions resulted in an unseasonable bumper harvest of grapes. Not able to decide what to do about so many grapes at Christmas time, the King of Spain and the grape growers came up with the idea of the New Year ritual.


Eating Noodles

Late on the evening of December 3 1, people of Japan would eat a bowl of buckwheat noodles called "toshikoshi soba" ("year-crossing noodles") and listen for the sound of the Buddhist temple bells, which were rung 108 times at midnight. The sound of these bells is said to purify the listeners of the 108 sins or evil passions that plague every human being.


White Clothes

In Brazil most people wear white clothes on New Year’s Eve to bring good luck and peace for the year that will follow.


Gifts in Shoes

In Greece children leave their shoes by the fireside on New Year’s Day (also the Festival of Saint Basil in Greece) with the hope that Saint Basil, who was famous for his kindness, will come and fill their shoes with gifts.


Carry a Suitcase

In Venezuela, Argentina, Bolivia, and Mexico, those with hopes of traveling in the New Year carry a suitcase around the house at midnight. Some even carry it around the block to ensure traveling at greater distances.


Burn Crackers

The people in China believe that there are evil spirits that roam the earth. So on New Year they burn crackers to scare the evil spirits. The doors and windows of every home in china can be seen sealed with paper. This is to keep the evil demons out.

 

Barrels of Tar

In Scotland, the New Year is called Hogmanay. In the villages of Scotland, barrels of tar are set afire and then rolled down the streets. This ritual symbolizes that the old year is burned up and the new one is allowed to enter.

 

Rosh Hashanah

The Jewish New Year is called Rosh Hashanah. It is a holy time when Jews recall the things they have done wrong in the past, and then promise to do better in the future. Special services are held in the synagogues, children are given new clothes and New Year loaves are baked to remind people of harvest time.

 

Beginning of Spring

Iran’s New Year’s Day, which is in March, celebrates not only the beginning of the new year according to the solar calendar, but also bahar, "the beginning of spring."

 

 

 
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Posted by on December 31, 2008 in Uncategorized

 

Make yourself trustworthy

 

I know a person, let us call her Nirmala, who would be very nice when talking to you. She will listen with rapt attention to all that you say and make sympathetic interjections to goad you reveal more. She would appear very friendly and give the impression that she is trustworthy. You would have poured your heart out to her telling all the things that you would have  normally  kept to yourself but for her responsive demeanour.Nirmala is  however the worst gossip. She would rush to tell others one by one not just what she heard from you but embroider it with half truths and utter lies. You would be shocked when you hear people talking in hushed tones about your personal matters. Once bitten, you would be doubly shy of talking to her. You will avoid her like a plague like so many others whom she befriended earler.But she would go for new quarries. She never realised that she lost many good friends and was practically a loner detested by all who knew her. Yet she was not able to change herself. She did nothing to earn the trust of the people by discarding this bad habit of gossiping.

The point that I am trying to convey is that each one of us is tempted, not like Nirmala always, but to tell others sometimes what has been told us in confidence. There is a false satisfaction in showing off that we know a little more than what the other person knows. The intention may not be to harm but nevertheless the act of betraying the confidence is bad. By such foolish acts we create an image of us to others with whom we mix that would do us little credit. In turn others would be cautious when they speak to us. It is in us to control the way others respond to us by conducting ourselves

A true friend never breaches the trust of his companion or stabs in his back. He is trustworthy and reliable. One should therefore always try to be a true and reliable friend

 
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Posted by on December 28, 2008 in Uncategorized

 

Let your request be known to God

I read this in a book The Alladin Fact by Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen
 
When a man has done all he can do, still there is a mighty, mysterious agency over which he needs influence to secure success.The only way he can reach it is by prayer–Russell H. Conwell
 
 Mother  Teresa of  Calcutta had a dream.She told her superiors, " I have three pennies and a dream from God  to bild an orphanage."
"Mother Teresa," her superiors chided gently, "you cannot bild an orphanage with three pennies.with three pennies you can’t do anything!"
"I know," she said smiling, "but with God and three pennies I can do anything!"
 
"We are headed towards a point in time in history where the spiritual energy is so powerful.All people need to do is turn toward the energy and ask.In the Bible it says "Ask and you shall receive." God is waiting and all you need to do is ask even a little bit for help, and it will be there. A lot of people either don’t ask or turn their backs.     -Tim Piering
 
So what are you waiting for? Pray intensely with faith and your prayers would be answered.
 
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Posted by on December 27, 2008 in Uncategorized

 

Ten laws of life

 

Ten laws of life

I read this in a book by Jay McGraw and wish to share.

1. You either get it, or you don’t

How to get the L for loser off your head

1. You create your own experience.

Become the star of your own life

3. People do what works.

The truth about why you can act so weird

4. You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.

Get big-time real about your shortcomings and make a to-do list

5. Life rewards action.

What are you waiting for? Get it in gear

6. There is no reality, only perception.

Open your eyes and get into focus

7. Life is managed; it is not cured

Keep it in gear, no coasting

8. We teach people how to treat us.

Don’t be a doormat

9. There is power in forgiveness

Your ‘get out of jail free “ card

10. You have to name it before you can claim it.

I know what I want, and I want it now”.

 
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Posted by on December 25, 2008 in Uncategorized

 

How much to trust?

When a father asks his child who is standing on a book shelf to jump in his arms, it does unhesitatingly. It has a complete trust in his dad and  a belief that he will come to no harm .That kind of trust is never possible in this cynical world where we believe that we are vulnerable when we trust someone. But without some trust can the world move on? Do we not  walk on the road peacefully trusting that other vehicle  users of road follow the rules ? Do we not send young children out to play believing no one will take them away? Can there be love and joy without some basic trust in human goodness?

When we go to a doctor and get some medicines prescribed, we trust his judgment implicitly and take the medicines. Likewise when we buy medicines from chemists, we believe that they are not duplicates or fakes. In our day to day transactions we trust people to a large extent as otherwise life would become unhappy. There may be disappointments on a few occasions no doubt but we should learn to live with it and not distrust everyone. Someone put it ‘You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment if you don’t trust enough.”

Trust is based on the belief that others have confidence in you and your ability and will not take unfair advantage of you. It is  the ability to create relationships with others based on mutual respect and caring. Good friends never betray your trust.

 Uncongenial atmosphere of hate or lack of love, divorced parents, emotional and physical abuse, broken relationship, death of close relative, chronic illness and low self esteem could all lead to lack of trust and suspicion.Getting over this is not easy without constant practice and motivation from others. I would put a strong faith in God as the first step. This belief that He would take care of your troubles would gradually reduce the mistrust and enable you to ‘let go’ the hurts and disappointments. Mingling and living with positive minded people would provide the healing environment.Overcoming unwanted fears, developing self esteem in one’s capabilities and building trusting relationships after due care would be the way to go about to get over this malaise.

 
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Posted by on December 23, 2008 in Uncategorized

 

Giving to the needy poor never hurts

I was inspired by a mail sent recently by a good friend of mine.She drew my attention to an old couple giving their time ,energy and money to the deprived people around their house.They could afford to rest and relax in their post retirement days  pursuing their interests after working for several years.Yet they chose to turn their attention to return to the society whatever they got from it.Not all of us are driven by such impulses.The giving back to the unfortunate lot should come from the heart.There should be no expectation whatsoever in return.It should preferably  be done without much publicity.The only motive should be that you wish to share what you have at least a small portion.The only reason you are giving is that you are moved by the suffering of fellow beings,that you are thankful to God for keeping you in a position to give, and the belief that you will have adequately enough everytime you wish to give.Such acts of kindness would bring you more riches to share in larger measure.This charitable nature of yours and your kind acts would not be in vain.The God above,if you believe in Him, would be watching you and your bond with Him will become stronger and closer.

It is not suggested that we should forsake all our needs that are reasonable and legitimate.It is enough if you can donate what you can spare.It is not always money though money is often required to meet others’ needs.Your spare time can be usefully spent in teaching poor students or in social service or in any orphan home,reading for blind and in ever so many ways.Imagine how the world around us would be changed if each one of us are inspired by  such thoughts and do our bit.How much of change would be brought about in the lives of the poor and sick if only we eschew selfishness and spending our time  and money only for us and our needs.?

I have  heard famous  and very eminent doctors who charge fabulous fees devote a portion of their time once a week for treating the poor free.Hospitals too set apart some time for frree medical help for the poor.Yet these are not adequate considering the immensity of our needs.There are leaders in industry who give away silently.Yet not all do so.Whatever comes is a tiny drop in the  vast ocean of unmet  needs.

My daughter every three months calls the poor homes and donates all the used clothes which are in good condition , the unsed/replaced gadjets, the odd bits and ends.She gives bread every week to the poor outside the church without fail and donate silently to charitable causes. I  have observed that those who give are never in want and God gives them ten ttimes more.

Like the dew that falls unseen and unheard and yet brings into blossom the fairest of roses, the act of kindness in giving will bring joy and love in many lives.

 
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Posted by on December 22, 2008 in Uncategorized